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ASK LADY A

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How do I convince my wife that this is apart of sex………….

Dear Lady A,

I have been married to my wife for 12 years going strong. In those 12 years my wife has never given me fellatio but I have been given her fellatio since before we were married. We have 2 beautiful kids and a wonderful marriage but I want some head!!!  How do I convince my wife that this is apart of sex with me as her husband? By the way I am in no way thinking about cheating on my beautiful wife I would just like to have this experience from her.

Sincerely,

A Frustrated Husband!

Dear Frustrated Husband,

WOW!!! I am sorry you are not experiencing the full joys of sexual relations with your wife. My question would be to you is have you ever had a conversation as to why she doesn’t give fellatio? If not that may be a good start. Make sure you are listening to her full concerns, fears, inquiries or reasons to why she has not or will not. Getting to the root of why this may be absent from her sexual requirements for you may also help explore other things she may not know about herself. My advice is to seek trusted council that can break down aspects of a healthy sexual relationship between spouses. Look for counselors or life coaches that list these types of situations for their expertise. The goal should not be to convince your wife that she needs to do it but encourage her to feel comfortable in doing it with you her number one guy. Good Luck on the journey of exploring new sexual heights in your marriage.

Fingers Crossed,

Lady A

Dear Lady A,

I recently started talking to a guy that I am learning to really like. I was already aware that he has two kids by one individual and just recently learned he has another one on the way from an experience of cheating on his last girlfriend. Even though he is single now and has been completely honest with me, I can’t help but to wonder will this behavior continue in any relationship he is in? My question is with finding this information out early in the dating should I flee or should I stay and give him a chance anyway?

Sincerely,

Always Single

Dear Always Single,

You must first ask yourself how do you know he is being completely honest? Also keep in mind a newborn is soon to arrive and are you willing to deal with the time commitments that will require him to be away from you in dealing with a newborn? Another question is are you looking for a relationship or is he just something for the moment? If you are looking for a relationship then you would need to have a conversation about expectations and boundaries regarding how you two will move forward. If he is just something to do for the moment then my suggestion is keep dating others and be completely honest with him regarding you guys not being exclusive. If you feel that it is already too much then be honest with yourself baby girl and flee in a respectable way. Hope it works out in your favor whatever that may be.

Fingers Crossed,

Lady A