LUXE 5 is a monthly series where we ask 5 high-profile people 5 questions related to a specific topic selected by our readers.
For the month of November we wanted to get inside the head of some LUXE men to see what keeps them happy and satisfied in a relationship. We polled our readers to see what questions they wanted answered from our LUXE Men. Check out Part 1, Part 2 , and Part 3 of the November series.
1. What keeps you happy in a relationship?
Having a foundation of trust which gives birth to unconditional love that demands steadfastness of each others loyalty. Communication that defies the tricks of misunderstandings. Support and encouragement to do my best in attaining my goals. Intimacy is highly important (does not pertain to sex alone though). Her being happy with who she is. Lastly finding ways to incorporate God into our lives and relationship.
2. How would you feel if your woman made more money than you?
The amount she makes in comparison to mine is not a factor. Most women who are financially superior in their relationships only want to be spoiled with his time, his attention, his trustablity, his effort, his commitment, his loyalty, him choosing to put her as a priority, and his ability to give her orgasms…among other things. For she is well able to finance herself.
Some women however, water themselves down to suit or fit the personality of the man she’s dating in order to comfort and sooth his ego(if he makes less). I, personally, don’t like that. I prefer for her to be the woman she created herself to be with no guilt or shame. I’m not intimidated by her strength or her power. I’m strong enough to grow to her level. It doesn’t take away from me being the MAN in my household having been upgraded by a woman..
3. What attracts you to a woman?
I’m attracted to beauty and charm. Class and style. Good character and personality. Good sense of humor and a quick wit. An open mind and spontaneity. Most importantly a woman that likes to have fun.
4. Do you prefer a woman who is submissive or takes control?
I like a happy medium. An assertive woman that can be submissive enough to allow me to treat her like the woman she is and deserves.
Ok, lets get the physique out of the way first. Lol. I tend to go for the range between 36-34-40 and 42-36-52….and 5‘3 to 5‘9 inches tall. Something about that waist to hips curvature (pear shape) that entices and captivates the man in me. I’m a butt, hip, and leg man. Lol.
But there are other factors that contribute to the sex appeal of a woman for me. Such as leggings with high heels (4 to 6 inches tall), a firm fitting pant suit (or a skirt)with a jacket and a nice blouse. The way she wears her outfits… I prefer selective cleavage, showing a little but leaving more to the imagination. Revealing the back of her shoulders or the small of her back (but never both at the same time…well, depending) with a beautifully well designed tattoo on either or both. Her scent…the bath wash and perfume she wears. Confidence…understated or subtlety conveyed. Yet, having a deliciously improper mind with an aphrodisiac tongue (verbiage). Smart. Well-rounded. Listens to a variety genre of music. Knows what she wants and goes after it. She’s a true tigress.